cityofchamps09,
I have sent you a private message to further assist you. You can click on my name (ComcastKristyl) and click on "Private Message Me”.
At the top of each Forum page you will see a small envelope. This is the icon for Private Messages, referred to as ‘PM’s’. A Private Message is a way to communicate in private, to another User, Moderator, or Administrator out of public view in the Forums.
The envelope icon will have a number next to it if you have any new messages waiting.
To open a PM, double click on the envelope. If you click on the envelope a window will open with tabs for your Private Message Inbox, Sent Messages, Friends, Ignored Users, and Compose new Message. You can also access this area by clicking on the Username in a Thread or post. By default, Private Messages are enabled. You can disable this feature in My Settings>Preferences> Private Messenger.